Folks like that piss me off. Where in the hell does she get off emailing you such a thing? You're being SUPPORTIVE. That has nothing to do with your own personal position on abortion, but shows that you are a true friend that will help make a time like this a little less scary for someone you care about. I only hope that if I ever have to make such a decision, there will be someone like yourself there to hold my hand and support me while putting their own opinions aside.